You can see infinite wealth and power all around you when you open up your spiritual eyes. The buried treasure is actually a gold mine inside of you that is filled with the powerful and wonderful resources to help you live a glorious life. Many people are completely clueless about their gold mine of infinite wisdom and unlimited resources within. They have never been taught who they are and what they can become when they learn to tap into that wonderful gold mine. Did you know that when steel is magnetized it can lift about twelve times its own weight? When you demagnetize the same piece of steel, it can’t even lift a feather.
There are two types of people in life, those who are magnetized and those who are not. The magnetized person knows that they have the internal resources and knows about the gold mine within. They know that they can access to infinite power, wisdom, self-confidence and skills inside and can use these to create a wonderful life. When you are going through a conflictual divorce or custody battle, it is easy to run on fear and doubt. The goal in this article is to help you realize that you have everything you need inside of you to become a parent to the 10th power. Step out of your pain and look inside for your strength. Get as much information about the courts as possible so you can get in, get out and get on with life.
The demagnetized person is full of doubts, fears and doesn’t know the power they have inside. They are focused on what the EX is doing to them or the children rather than on what they can do to be “with” the children and keep them out of the middle of the conflict. These parents often feel powerless and frightened.
The truth is that you do have the power to change the way your case is going. You can’t do it in the courtroom or with professions, you really win when you realize that you have the power inside of you the change the way you act and think and feel about your EX. As long as you are afraid of what your EX is doing to you or your children, they are in change. You win your custody case in your head and in your heart. Custody issues are never really won in the courtroom, they are won inside your head when you really understand how much power your really have to take yourself out of the conflict and place your children first in your mind.
Creating activities with your children that keep them thinking about their time with you is one way to connect your children more closely to you. Your children miss you when you are distracted by your EX. They will do anything to get your attention, even if it is misbehavior or poor grades. When you realize your internal power, you can let go of the fight and stay focused on creating a big, big wonderful world with lots of choices for your children and you to enjoy. Plan activities with your children in advance so your children have something to look forward to doing with you. This keeps you in their mind when they are with the other parent. Give them individual responsibility for planning the activities, for example, if you choose to go camping, give them the job of helping you inventory the camping equipment, replacing the flashlight batteries, planning the meals. Give them a voice, during the planning so they feel like they have a stake in the events and are part of it, this way they will embrace the activities rather than fight you on them.
When you are focused on planning positive activities with your children for future time, you begin to feel closer to your children and they feel closer to you. They will do anything to behave so they can participate in activities that keep making them feel close. Once you get a glimpse of your power to bring your children along with you into the future, you have experienced your gold mine within. The more you engage your children in positive planning in the future, the more they respond. They more they respond, the easier it is to leave your EX in the dust. (Your gold dust, that is!)
There are two types of people in life, those who are magnetized and those who are not. The magnetized person knows that they have the internal resources and knows about the gold mine within. They know that they can access to infinite power, wisdom, self-confidence and skills inside and can use these to create a wonderful life. When you are going through a conflictual divorce or custody battle, it is easy to run on fear and doubt. The goal in this article is to help you realize that you have everything you need inside of you to become a parent to the 10th power. Step out of your pain and look inside for your strength. Get as much information about the courts as possible so you can get in, get out and get on with life.
The demagnetized person is full of doubts, fears and doesn’t know the power they have inside. They are focused on what the EX is doing to them or the children rather than on what they can do to be “with” the children and keep them out of the middle of the conflict. These parents often feel powerless and frightened.
The truth is that you do have the power to change the way your case is going. You can’t do it in the courtroom or with professions, you really win when you realize that you have the power inside of you the change the way you act and think and feel about your EX. As long as you are afraid of what your EX is doing to you or your children, they are in change. You win your custody case in your head and in your heart. Custody issues are never really won in the courtroom, they are won inside your head when you really understand how much power your really have to take yourself out of the conflict and place your children first in your mind.
Creating activities with your children that keep them thinking about their time with you is one way to connect your children more closely to you. Your children miss you when you are distracted by your EX. They will do anything to get your attention, even if it is misbehavior or poor grades. When you realize your internal power, you can let go of the fight and stay focused on creating a big, big wonderful world with lots of choices for your children and you to enjoy. Plan activities with your children in advance so your children have something to look forward to doing with you. This keeps you in their mind when they are with the other parent. Give them individual responsibility for planning the activities, for example, if you choose to go camping, give them the job of helping you inventory the camping equipment, replacing the flashlight batteries, planning the meals. Give them a voice, during the planning so they feel like they have a stake in the events and are part of it, this way they will embrace the activities rather than fight you on them.
When you are focused on planning positive activities with your children for future time, you begin to feel closer to your children and they feel closer to you. They will do anything to behave so they can participate in activities that keep making them feel close. Once you get a glimpse of your power to bring your children along with you into the future, you have experienced your gold mine within. The more you engage your children in positive planning in the future, the more they respond. They more they respond, the easier it is to leave your EX in the dust. (Your gold dust, that is!)
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