The San Diego County High Conflict Intervention Program

The high conflict program is a 12 week class for conflicting parent. You and your EX do not attend the class together on the same nights. The cost of the class is $35 per class. The class is designed to help you end the conflict with your EX. I teach you the skills to get your children out of the middle and the techniques to disengage from your EX and become empowered to move away from the conflict.

I have worked with over 3500 high conflict couples in the last 11 years and have found that every time you hear your EX’s voice or you see their face, you will emotionally and physically react with anxiety. This anxiety reaction lasts for about 72 hours. I call this “spinning.” I also call it “noise in your head,” because the anxiety reaction creates a mental dialogue that stops you from focusing on your children, and instead keeps you distracted because you are thinking about what is going on between you and your EX.

During the classes we discuss two specific rules that are designed to eliminate or significantly reduce the conflict. The first rule we discuss is to eliminate all face to face communication between you and your EX. The second rule is that all communication between your and your EX should be done only in writing. Both of these rules are designed to reduce the contact and the communication between both of you. Following these rules will help you to calm down and to reduce the conflict which helps you protect your children.

During the class we discuss how to get through the court system. We discuss the dos and don’ts and the rights and wrongs for your court case. We discuss how to understand the mindset of the court professionals and what to do to stay on their good side. We also discuss strategies to communicate more effectively with the court professionals involved in your case, hoe to tell your story so that professionals listen to your concerns rather than tune you out and what the courts don’t really care about and what they want to hear from you about your case. We discuss how to get closer to your children in fun, imaginative ways which will brings them emotionally closer to you too. We talk about becoming a parent to the 10th power so that you are focused on being a great parent and you can let go of the small things your EX does to you and the children that drive you nuts and the courts won’t do anything about!

If you have more questions that are not answered in the mini article, please feel free to contact me via email at Doc@DeenaStacer.com or call me at 800-980-0434. I am about ready to launch an electronic version of this class, but the launch date has not been determined yet it should be in the spring of 2008 however.

To get the directions to the class, please go to www.highconflictintervention.com and go to the page for the class flyer and map and download the flyer.